It wasn't easy to make a new relationship works between man and woman. Need lot of adjustments. So are we. In less than a month, since Christmas, my relationship with her is not going to be a better and healthy relationship. So we decided to step back for 1 month. We do our daily activity as usual as if we don't have relationship, meanwhile we must pray, ask God, humbly our self before the Lord and release it to God's will what's best for us.
We do a "silent month". Let's see whether I can continue this relationship or not.